Pamela Marie Brelling Kelley of Danbury passed away at her home after a courageous battle with Cancer. She was the widow of Daniel Kelley.

Born in Bethpage NY, she was the daughter of the late Edward and Mary Frances Homerston Brelling. Pam worked at the former Perkin Elmer and all the companies that followed on Wooster heights in Danbury for 44 years, retiring in 2021. Pam loved gardening, her house plants, cooking gourmet meals, loved the beach and was most passionate about animals, especially her cats. She had a feral colony she took care of for years and ended up inviting some into her home and they became her "kids".

Besides her parents and husband, Pam was predeceased by her siblings James Brelling, Glen Brelling, Donald Brelling and Susan Brelling. She is survived by her loving brother Ronald Brelling and his wife Kathleen. Her brother in law Thomas Kelley and his wife Kathy. Her nieces and nephews, Ryan Donnelly-Brelling (Lee Pearce), Lauren McKenna, Erin Brelling, Justin Brelling, Kyle Brelling, TJ Kelley (Shannon), Laura Schroeder (Kevin), several cousins, great nieces and nephews.

A celebration of Pam's life will be held Saturday, November 22nd 2025, from 12PM to 2PM at the Bouton Funeral Home, 31 West Church Street, Georgetown, CT.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial contributions to Danbury Animal Welfare Society (DAWS), 147 Grassy Plain Street, Bethel, Connecticut, 06801.

To offer online condolences or share memories with her family, please visit http://www.boutonfuneralhome.com.